What if I told you that changing just one thing in your morning could change the way your entire day feels? Seriously—no 20-step skincare routine, no waking up at 5 a.m., and definitely no guilt if you’re not “that girl” with a color-coded fridge and a Pilates schedule.

Let me let you in on something that transformed my mornings when I was completely overwhelmed: I stopped trying to do everything and started doing one thing—consistently.

Why Mornings Matter More Than You Think

We’ve all been there. You hit snooze three times, check your phone before your eyes are fully open, and suddenly you’re in reactive mode—scrolling emails, answering messages, and racing to get out the door (or to your laptop if you work from home).

That kind of start? It stays with you.

But mornings can be a chance to center yourself before the noise starts. You don’t need an hour-long routine. You just need one intentional act that says, “I’m showing up for me today.”

The Power of Just One Thing

Here’s the secret: When you do one small, meaningful thing every morning—just one—you create a ripple effect.

It could be a 2-minute stretch, a quick journal prompt, or even applying sunscreen while looking yourself in the mirror and saying, “I’ve got this.”

I started with lemon water. Yep, as basic as it sounds. I had no time for anything fancy, but I told myself, “If I can just hydrate before coffee, I’m starting with intention.” And somehow, that one act made me want to do more, breathe deeper, move more, eat better.

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So, What’s Your One Thing?

The beauty of self-care is that it doesn’t have to look the same for everyone. Your “one thing” could fall into any of these categories:

🧠 For Your Mind

• Write down 1 thing you’re grateful for
• Read one page of an inspiring book
• Do a 3-minute guided meditation (I used to do this in the car, parked outside work!)

💪 For Your Body

• Drink a full glass of water before coffee
• Light 5-minute stretch or walk to the balcony for sunlight
• Try a quick dry brush or face massage to wake up circulation

💆‍♀️ For Your Skin & Beauty

• A simple skincare routine with SPF (even if you’re not going out!)
• Use a facial ice roller or light therapy mask while brushing your teeth
• Apply a leave-in hair treatment (like the K18 mask—I’m obsessed)

💖 For Your Soul

• Say 1 affirmation in the mirror (try: I deserve peace today)
• Light a candle or use essential oils while you get dressed
• Sit in silence for 2 minutes before checking your phone

How to Make It Stick

Let’s be real—starting something new is easy. Keeping it going? Not so much. Here’s how to anchor your one thing into your existing life:

1. Pair It With Something You Already Do

This is called habit stacking. For example:

• After brushing your teeth → say your affirmation
• After pouring coffee → write down a gratitude
• While washing your face → repeat your mantra

2. Start Small On Purpose

Don’t overachieve here. Choose something so small it feels almost too easy. That’s what makes it doable.

3. Make It Enjoyable

If you hate journaling, don’t do it. If you love your skincare routine, enhance that! Self-care should feel good, not like another task on your to-do list.

4. Track It (Lightly)

I used to put a tiny heart in my planner every morning I did my “one thing.” No pressure. Just a reminder: You showed up.

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Real-Life Examples (Yes, These Count!)

Here are a few examples from clients and friends who found their “one thing”:

• A new mom: Takes 3 deep breaths before getting out of bed.
• A teacher: Sprays lavender mist on her pillow after making the bed.
• A virtual assistant: Sips herbal tea while watching sunlight hit her window.
• Me: Swipes on tinted sunscreen and whispers, “Let’s go” before opening my laptop.

It’s not about time. It’s about presence.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Don’t sabotage your own self-care by making these classic beginner mistakes:

❌ Trying to Copy Someone Else’s Routine

That 8-step TikTok wellness ritual may look aesthetic, but it might not fit your lifestyle (or energy levels). Customize.

❌ Making It Too Complicated

If your routine needs a checklist, it’s too much. One thing = one action.

❌ Skipping Days = Giving Up

Life happens. You’re not failing—you’re adjusting. Get back to it tomorrow, no shame.

What to Do When You’re in a Rut

There will be days you don’t feel like doing anything. That’s okay. Instead of skipping your “one thing,” scale it down.

• Too tired to journal? Jot one word.
• Don’t want to move? Just stand in sunlight for 30 seconds.
• Low mood? Put your hand on your heart and take one deep breath.

This is self-compassion in action.

Tools That Help (Optional, Not Required)

If you want to elevate your one thing, here are some gentle tools I’ve used and recommended:

• Facial Ice Roller – wakes up your skin and mind in under a minute
• K18 Leave-In Hair Mask – treat your hair while you work
• Light Therapy Mask – calming and energizing in one
• Scalp Massager – surprisingly calming for 2-minute use

(I only recommend tools I’ve tried or clients have loved—no pressure, just options.)

Final Thoughts: Start Where You Are

Your one thing doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be yours.

Even one mindful moment in the morning can remind you that you matter, before you pour yourself into work, caregiving, or daily chaos.

So let me ask you now:
What’s your “one thing” tomorrow morning?
Write it down. Set a reminder. Show up for it. Show up for you.

📬 Want a printable tracker for your “One Thing” routine?

Download the free 7-Day Self-Care Challenge Tracker – Miss Cognita style 💗 – 👇